Do you have any dating advice for introverts?

Do you have any dating advice for introverts? –@dylanized

Yes. If you spend even one night at home, you are in trouble. As Gretzky says, “skate to where the puck is going, not where it’s at.”

So… go to tango classes. Go to yoga. Go to cooking classes. Join book clubs. Don’t think you’ll go to one tango class and meet the love of your life. All of these things are seeds that you plant. Some of the seeds will grow, some will not.

If you find yourself with free time after this, sign up for every dating service. Send out twenty notes a day. Vary them up. Make them funny, clever. I would do it for you but I would have to charge. I was a dating service expert. I used all of them.

And remember that you have to handle rejection, lots of it. But even a rejection is a seed planted. It builds strength in you and gets the word out: you are looking, you are available.

Most importantly, go to all the places where there are more women than men. Believe me! Women want to meet you just as much as you want to meet them. And they love introverts.

Look at me! I’m hideous. But I worked it, and it worked.

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