How do I go through life loving just one woman when I see floods of beautiful women every day? Shouldn’t monogamy be dissolved?

How do I go through life loving just one woman when I see floods of beautiful women every day? Shouldn’t monogamy be dissolved? –@eefeanyi

Let’s look at the upside and downside of this. Obviously there’s one downside to being monogamous: you can’t have sex with other women/men.  Sex with someone new is a great, exciting thing. Even if it comes bottled up with intrigue, chasing, and an eventual end.

So what are the upsides of monogamy?

A)     You definitely get to know someone a lot better.

B)      With that knowledge, you penetrate not only the body but many different layers you didn’t know existed before, particularly if you are serious about continuing to fall in love with the person you are with.

C)   If you jump from person to person (literally) you never get to experience that depth. But, as I mentioned in the “Diseases that Billionaires Get,” http://bit.ly/qMghRZ it’s hard (like anything that’s worth it) to stick with monogamy. Perhaps the most important thing (for men) to know, is that scientific evidence suggests that monogamous relationships lead to a greater life expectancy.

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